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A family history story

The Woman Who Sang

Tamai Rangi, and the lament that worked

They had her.

She was on a beach at O-Wharau Bay in Cook Strait with a hostile war party around her and her children behind her, and the man in charge of them was Te Rangihaeata of Ngāti Toa, who was Te Rauparaha's nephew and not a soft man in any account anybody has ever written of him.

Her name was Tamai Rangi. The manuscript calls her a chieftainess of high rank and fame of the Ngāti Kuia tribe, and her home was at Arapaoa Island in Queen Charlotte Sounds, which is to say she was a long way from it.

She had already run once. Ngāti Mutunga had driven a last remnant of Ngāti Ira onto the small island at Wellington called Tapu Te Ranga, which people now call Island Bay, and she had got off it in a canoe with a handful of people she was related to. She had gone out past Cape Te Rimurapa and Cape Te Rawhiti and along the strait, and they had caught her anyway.

The manuscript's words for what she was feeling are plain: dreading that she would be killed.


And here is what she did.

She did not beg. She did not offer anything. She did not invoke her rank, which was considerable, or name her relations, which was the ordinary currency in that situation.

She asked to be allowed to sing a lament.

That is all. Let me sing first.

They let her. Somebody in that party said yes, and everything stopped, and a woman stood on a beach in front of the men who were about to kill her and sang.


We do not have the words. Nobody wrote them down. That is its own kind of loss and there is nothing to be done about it.

What we have is the effect, and the compiler records it in one line:

> "...which touched Te Rangihaeata so much that he asked Te Ātiawa not to kill her but let him have > her, and on their compliance she and her children were taken to Kāpiti Island, where they hid for some > time."

It worked.

A waiata tangi is not a plea. It is not addressed to the people holding you. It is the form you use for the dead and for what has been lost, and a woman of rank would have had them by heart the way you have your own language by heart. She would have been singing her own losses and her own line and her own country, and she was singing it to men who had exactly the same losses and the same country and the same line, because these people were all relations to each other underneath the war.

She reminded them what they were, out loud, in the only form that cannot be argued with.

And a Ngāti Toa chief listened to it and then turned to the men beside him and asked them to give her to him instead of killing her.

Not spared, exactly. Taken. Hidden on Kāpiti for some time, with her children. That was not freedom and nobody should pretend it was.

But she was alive at the end of the song and she had not been at the start of it.



What her son did next

One of Tamai Rangi's sons was a young chief named Kekerungu, and the manuscript calls him handsome in the same sentence it introduces him, which tells you where this is going.

While they were living on Kāpiti, gossip went round the island that he had been guilty of an affair with one of Te Rangihaeata's wives.

The same man. The one who had spared his mother.

Kekerungu went to his mother, which is the correct instinct, and she decided they should run again. They got a canoe, they provisioned it, and they slipped quietly away under the cover of darkness.

They crossed the strait to the South Island and went first to their old home at Arapaoa. But their own relations there found out what he had done and asked them to leave, and they left. They went south along the coast and settled at last near Cape Campbell and the Clarence River.

And there the young chief Kekerungu was killed.


Now go and look at a map of the Kaikōura coast.

There is a settlement on it, at the mouth of a river, south of the Clarence.

It is called Kekerengu.


That is the whole of it. A woman who sang for her life on a beach and got it. A boy who was too handsome for his own good and could not stop running from what he had done. A river mouth on a hard coast that carries his name because he died there, and a country that goes on saying it every day without knowing whose it is.

This family's story is full of that. Korokoro is a valley named for a child's throat. Takapū is a hill named for a man's belly. Waitohi is a town named for Te Rauparaha's sister.

And Kekerengu is a place named for a young man who ran out of places to go.


The compiler headed this page EXTRA. It was not part of the main line. He did not have to include it at all, and he does not claim Tamai Rangi or her son as ancestors anywhere on the page.

He put it in because it was worth keeping.

That is a historian's instinct and it is also a storyteller's, and it is why there is anything here to read.



Where this comes from

Page 180 of the sixty-four page whakapapa manuscript held by Karen Philips, headed "Extra to Ngāti Mutunga and Ngāti Tama occupy Wellington", read from the original photograph, 21 August 2026.

The quoted passage is the compiler's own wording. So are "a chieftainess of high rank and fame of the Ngāti Kuia tribe", "dreading that she would be killed", and "slipped quietly away under the cover of darkness".

The page does not state that Tamai Rangi or Kekerungu are ancestors of this family, and nothing here should be read as claiming it. They are recorded because the compiler chose to record them.

Kekerengu is a real place on the Kaikōura coast in Marlborough, south of the Clarence River, and appears on any map of New Zealand. Tapu Te Ranga is the island at Island Bay, Wellington. Te Rangihaeata is a documented figure of New Zealand history and is drawn on the printed Ngāti Toa table bound into this same folio.

On page 182 the compiler gives the Kekerungu affair as the first of Te Rauparaha's three stated reasons for crossing to the South Island in 1828, so this story is not a footnote. It set the next twenty years in motion.

Every date and name in this comes from a written record. Where we could not verify something, it is not here.

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